Supporting An Aging Parent While Homeschooling: Tips From A Caregiving Professional
Balancing homeschooling with the responsibilities of caring for an aging parent can feel overwhelming. Both roles demand time, emotional energy, and thoughtful planning. The good news is that with the right approach, it’s possible to manage both successfully — and find moments of joy and connection along the way.
Drawing from the experience of caregiving professionals, here are practical strategies to help homeschooling families create a rhythm that supports learning and honors the needs of an aging loved one.
1. Create a Unified Daily Routine
One of the most effective ways to manage dual responsibilities is to build a daily routine that integrates both caregiving and homeschooling. Predictable schedules help children feel secure and focused, while also offering structure for aging parents who may rely on consistency.
Include designated times for schooling, meals, rest, and personal care. Keep it flexible enough to adapt to unexpected needs but structured enough to give everyone a sense of stability. For example, morning lessons can be scheduled during times when your parent is typically resting or watching a favorite show.
2. Designate a Quiet, Safe Space for Each Person’s Needs
Homeschooling and caregiving can compete for space — physically and mentally. Try to designate specific areas of the home for school activities and for your parent’s comfort and safety. This helps minimize distractions and creates zones of calm for both groups.
If your aging parent has medical equipment or mobility concerns, ensure their area is free from clutter and easily accessible. At the same time, set up a dedicated space where your children can concentrate on their studies without interruption.
3. Encourage Intergenerational Learning and Connection
There’s a unique beauty in bringing generations together. Involve your parent in the homeschooling experience when possible. They may enjoy reading to your children, sharing stories from their own childhood, or helping with certain subjects like history or art. This not only enriches your children’s learning but also fosters a deeper bond between generations.
Even small interactions — like sharing lunch or working on a puzzle together — can offer emotional benefits for your parent while teaching your children empathy, patience, and respect.
4. Seek Outside Support and Community Resources
You don’t have to do everything alone. Look for local or virtual homeschooling groups that offer co-ops, curriculum swaps, or part-time learning pods. These communities can offer support, encouragement, and even respite when you need a break.
Similarly, many communities have resources for caregivers — adult day programs, in-home support services, or even volunteer companions who can provide short-term relief.
5. Consider Ways to Get Paid for Family Caregiving
Many families are surprised to learn that some states offer programs that provide financial compensation for family caregivers. If you’re spending significant time caring for your parent, you may be eligible for Medicaid-funded programs or other assistance that supports getting paid to take care of a family member. These programs can ease financial pressure and validate the time and energy you invest in your loved one’s care. Reach out to your local agency, Medicaid office or social worker on aging to explore available options in your region.
6. Prioritize Self-Care Without Guilt
Homeschooling and caregiving can be deeply rewarding — but also emotionally exhausting. Make room for your own needs, even in small ways. Whether it’s waking up 15 minutes early for quiet time, taking a walk while the kids and your parent nap, or connecting with a friend, these moments matter.
Remember that your well-being directly impacts your ability to care for others. Taking care of yourself is not selfish — it’s a necessary part of creating a sustainable and loving home environment.
Supporting an aging parent while homeschooling is no small task, but it’s possible to do both with grace and purpose. By building routines, seeking support, and finding ways to integrate care and education, families can thrive through the challenges and grow closer through the journey.
Author bio: Brett LaBrie is the co-founder of Family Love Care, a Michigan-based organization dedicated to offering individuals and families comprehensive access to paid family caregiving support. With more than 12 years of experience in the Medicaid home care industry, LaBrie has a strong background in marketing, finance, and operations, which he brings to his leadership role at the company.
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